This sounds as if you do not have faith in these poker rooms. My advice is to play only where you feel comfortable. There are plenty of online poker rooms available. As for the hole card problems of Absolute and Ultimate, they are now heavily watched by an outside agency and are probably some of the more tightly regulated sites going at the moment.
There are donks at all levels and suckouts do occur at the top of the food chain. More moves are made at the higher levels based on poker instincts and player reads than hand strength. The top pros are just humans and are prone to make mistakes, which all poker players do. Limiting your mistakes is one key to successful profitable play.
There is also the fact that poker players have a vivid memory when it comes to recalling bad beats and losses, but a hard time pulling together memories of all the wins (including their own suckouts) that got them to where they are now.
You may be seeing a combination of factors at work here. Look into your own game to see what can be adjusted. Make what ever changes are needed, if any. Beats are going to happen, sometimes frequently. If you are utilizing good bankroll management, these beats should not be but a small dent to your wad which can be easily overcome. If not, then you definitely need to get up to speed on handling your roll.
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